20 October 2023
St Paul of the Cross (reprise)
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 10:30 AM
15 October 2023
A Contemplative Moment: Morning Prayer
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 6:42 PM
Labels: Becoming the persons we are called to be, Emmanuel, imago Dei, John Philip Newell, Morning Prayer
Have Mercy on Us (Porter's Gate)
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 3:20 PM
Labels: Have Mercy on Us, Porter's Gate
07 October 2023
Hermiting: A Life Lived Entirely for God is also a Life Lived Entirely for Others
I've read your pieces for a while now and the "for others" dimension of your life is always there at least implicitly. I never got a sense that your life was selfish, but in thinking about a hermit candidate for profession "struggling" with the paradox of "stricter separation from the world" and being able to articulate how this vocation is really lived for the sake of others, I got a sense of how important it is to you and to the Canon governing your life that the hermit life not be a selfish one. How hard that must be!!! You are asked to separate yourself from the world and live a life of silence and solitude and yet to be engaged with it in a way that helps it be redeemed! Wow!! You know, I thought I had a question for you but now all I have is that "Wow"!
Does it ever cease to be a struggle -- the balance between solitude and living one's life for others? Do all hermits succeed in not living a selfish life by going off into solitude? I don't know if those are the questions I really want to ask but maybe you could say a little more about all of this when you have time. Oh, I found my question! Do you have it in your mind all the time that your life is lived for the sake of others? Is it something that drives who you are and what you do?]]
Thanks for your comments and your (eventual!) questions!! Good that the one you really wanted to ask came back to you!! I'm glad the emphasis on a life lived for others came through so clearly for you. It is one of the most counter-intuitive pieces of the vocation --- at least when we are thinking of hermits the way most folks tend to do. Today we have a term being used by some, "cocooning", that essentially refers to the idea of shutting oneself away from others. It gained real speed during the pandemic and today is recognized, not as a fad, but as an evolving trend. Some recognize three distinct types of cocooning, some speak of hyper-cocooning to measure the way technology has kept up and combined with the drive to cocoon, but most see all of this as a contemporary version of hermiting. One of the things Canon 603 makes very clear is that this is not so, and one element of Canon 603's vision of ALL eremitical life that does this most vividly is its insistence that eremitical life is a life lived for "the salvation of others".Yes, this idea is in my mind somewhere all the time --- though not always consciously. Usually, my thoughts go this way: [[This life is lived from, with, and for God, that is, on God's behalf in all of these ways. For this reason, it is also lived for the sake of those whom God loves, and for that reason it should edify and be a source of healing and redemption for them as well. It is unlikely that I will do this in the same way the apostolic Sister does, but hermiting should definitely be ministerial.]] Because I believe that hermiting witnesses with a kind of vividness to what it means to be truly human my sense of being human implies a responsibility to become and be that as fully as possible. One does that by allowing God to be God for us and within us as fully as possible --- even to the point of our becoming transparent to God as Jesus was wholly transparent to God. What we show others then is that human being is a task we are given to accomplish by the grace of God and in which relating to and with God is central.
For some hermits, all of this will necessarily spill over in some way for the direct benefit of others. Some will write about Eremitical Life or Prayer, for instance. Some will teach Scripture to their parish community, some of us have blogs and do spiritual direction, and some serve as EEMs or Lectors. Even when the hermit's presence in these ways is minimal or she rarely leaves her hermitage or speaks to others, the hermit raises questions for those paying attention: How can she live alone like she does? Does God really call some to give their lives to others in this way? Who could pray all day, how silly (boring, empty, meaningless, etc.) is all that; so why does she do this? Why would she come to minister to us in such minimal ways when she is a religious; shouldn't she be doing more (teaching CCD, RCIA, or leading workshops for Adult Faith Formation, etc.)? Is it really true her life is a ministry all by itself? What can I learn from her?What I hope you hear in all of this is that the hermit's life is first of all, all about God and all about letting God be God. But this also means God will love the hermit into wholeness. And because of this all of it also means that such a life will reveal to others the very nature of being truly or authentically human, whether this happens through active forms of ministry or not. If the hermit focuses on God and on allowing God to be God, she will become an expression of God's love and that will inevitably spill over in some way to others. Perhaps she never leaves her hermitage except for occasional shopping trips or attendance at Church. Even so, her very life is a ministry for those with ears to hear and eyes to see. At other times, the hermit's life with God will spill over into discrete ministries. Still, in either case, it is not about balance so much as it is about what must always come first, and what will invariably also occur in light of that.
And so it is with every disciple, everyone who desires to minister to others. What the hermit says to the entire Church of ministers is that it is always primarily about letting God be God and loving us into wholeness. Active ministry must always be built upon this. I remember that (Arch)Bishop Vigneron noted in his homily at my consecration that what I was reminding everyone of on that day is that we each need a place within ourselves that is given over entirely to God. I would push that a bit further because I understand the truth is paradoxical. I would say instead that each of us must be, first and foremost, entirely (wholeheartedly) about letting God be God and then too we can and will also be entirely (wholeheartedly) about the other --- each in our own way as our state of life calls us to be.What I try to keep in my mind all the time is this paradox. (It is actually made up of the same thoughts I began this piece with above and both parts drive me.) It helps prevent my life from becoming one of self-absorbed navel-gazing and concern with my own holiness or spiritual 'progression', and on the other hand, it also helps me when I am tempted to say yes to too much active ministry. In this paradox, there will be both work and progress toward greater and greater holiness AND there will be significant ministry. I suppose it is the hermit's outworking of the scripture, [[Seek ye first the Reign (or empowering sovereignty) of God and his righteousness (that is, let God be God), and all of these things shall be added unto you (i.e., everything else will flow freely).]] It is also, of course, an exemplar of the Law of Love.
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 6:56 PM
Labels: For the Salvation of the World, Hermits and Ministry
05 October 2023
Camaldolese Lead Morning Prayer at the Synod
Excited not only by the Synod, but by the fact that It is Camaldolese monks leading the schola for yesterday's Morning Prayer. (I understand they will lead MP every day.) I only know Fathers Cyprian (Prior, New Camaldoli) and Matteo (Monestero di Camaldoli), but they are with Br Thomas . (Not sure about the fourth monk.) Play to the end and you can access other segments of the Synod session.
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 9:13 PM
26 September 2023
The Sound of Silence (Reprise)
I asked an old monk, "How long have you been here?"
"Forever," he answered. " I smiled.
"Fifty years, Father?"
"Forever."
Did you know St. Benedict?"
"We are novices together."
"Did you know Jesus?"
"He and I converse every day."
I threw away my silly smile, fell to my knees, and clutched his hand.
"Father, " I whispered, "Did you hear the original sound?"
" I am listening to the original sound."
Those who pray contemplatively know this experience. It is the experience of being at the center, of having everything make a new kind of sense and having it feel alive with a new kind of life and light; colors are more vibrant, and flowers and plants seem lit from within with a unique iridescence; the gentle movement of the breeze through the branches occasions awe and even a sudden intake of breath as the everpresent movement of the Holy Spirit becomes symbolically "visible" for a moment. It is the experience of being part of the same story with our Sisters, Mary and Claire, and our Brothers, Paul, Francis, and Benedict, alive in the God who grounds us and resides deep in the core of our being, but who silently and as insistently summons us from without as well.
It is the experience of resting, really resting -- of being where one is meant to be, where one has ALWAYS been meant to be --- the experience of stepping out of time and taking up a place in the eternal heart of the Holy Trinity. God in us, we in Him, a communion of saints learning to love as God loves, to listen as God listens, to sing our lives and celebrate the singing of others' lives, to be the inestimable gifts to one another in Him we were always called to be --- and yet, always beginners, and always with everything ahead of us. It is the experience of being comprehended in every sense of that word: being profoundly heard, understood, known, held securely in God's hands, and completely encircled by his presence. It is the sound of silence and the compassionate space of contemplative solitude.
Time travel is an interesting subject for speculation, but for contemplatives, it is something known from regular experience. Every day eternity breaks in upon us. Every day we slip the bonds of mere temporality and participate in time's transfiguration. Chronos becomes Kairos; linear time dissolves into an eternal now, and our citizenship in this world is shown for the pale reflection it is of our truest citizenship in the Kingdom of God. But we do not do this to reject the created realm for some "supernatural" one, much less to leave it behind in a misguided anti-world asceticism. We do it so this world may BE transfigured, and God may come to be ALL in ALL.
Contemplation, after all, is not escape, but a quiet confrontation, a gentle capitulation to being, and the silent mediation of life; it is not flight, but the still celebration of an all-accepting and transforming presence. The hermitage or cell is separate from the world only so the world may be truly loved into its own in genuine intimacy, for real intimacy requires distance as well as closeness. An anchorite has a window into the church and peeks out onto eternity as it breaks in on the world in the liturgy. But really, every true hermitage (and every true hermit!) is a window through which the love of the living God radiates to transform the world of space and time into heaven itself.
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 8:54 PM
Labels: chronos, contemplative life, Kairos, The Contemplative Experience
Reminder: Questions and Comments are Welcome Here
I put this up once in a while and it's time to do it again. I just wanted to remind folks that questions, suggestions, (polite!) criticisms, and so forth are more than welcome here. Oftentimes the questions I get help me to consider aspects of my own life and this vocation more deeply or to see things in a completely new light. I write about what is important to me, or what strikes me in something I have read, etc, and while I didn't originally envision this as a question-answer format blog, more often it is the questions I receive that shape the posts I put up here.
One caveat: I do not always answer some questions immediately (though I will email you a quick reply nonetheless), Sometimes I will hold them with others of the same tenor and post them all together in a single composite "question." If you need an immediate answer please indicate that, and of course, if the question you ask is a confidential one that is not meant for this blog please indicate that. I respect your privacy. (N.B., You may find your own question here at another time in another form. Please understand that that is because it related generally to the subject at hand and was asked by others as well as yourself!)
One of the beauties of having a blog is, as I have written before here, it is very much like the anchorite's window on the world which allowed folks to approach her and talk. For the most part I, like most anchorites, keep the curtain drawn on my life here in Stillsong only opening it at certain times to reveal what is pertinent to the questions or topic at hand, but like the anchorite who lived in the midst of her town my choice of having a public blog means that folks have a right to approach me; that is, you are able to read me, question me, object to what I say and hear my response, and so forth. I sincerely hope readers will continue to do this; your questions, comments, etc. are of immense value to me and I have grown in my understanding and appreciation of Canon 603 and this vocation as a result of them.
While I have disabled comments on the blog itself (it makes the boundaries between things too porous and would intrude on my solitude) anything you would like to say or ask me about should be emailed to SRLAUREL@aol.com. Thanks again.
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 8:43 PM
Labels: Questions Welcome
Follow up Question to "Consumed by the Temporal or in Love with the God Revealed as Emmanuel?"
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 12:00 PM
Consumed by the Temporal or in Love With the God Revealed as Emmanuel?
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 11:55 AM
Labels: chronos, Holding all things sacred, Jesus as Fulfillment of the Law, Kairos, mysticism of the ordinary, Reality as Sacramental, Temporalization
20 September 2023
Stages of Growth in Prayer Associated with Eremitical Life (Reprise)
Your question and observation are important because the hermit must bring something to the formation process beyond a desire to make vows or dedicate herself to God. What I mean by saying this is that a person might want to dedicate themselves to God very sincerely but the silence of solitude is neither the context, the content, nor the charism they are called to in making this dedication. It is simply not the way they experience God's redemptive grace in their life, nor, therefore, can it be the unique way they witness to God's redemption. And yet, a hermit must say with her life that silence and eremitical solitude (which implies a life of penance and prayer in communion with God) lead to that redemptive quies or hesychasm canon 603 refers to as the silence of solitude. Moreover, the hermit must be able to say with her life that the grace of God is sufficient for us. She must be recognizable as a loving, generous, humble person who has been made truly human and truly happy in her eremitical solitude.
What may not have been clear in what I have written until now is that formation and redemption overlap. To the degree one is formed in the silence of solitude (again, in the solitary quies of communion with God) as a hermit so too will the person experience conversion and thus, redemption. When I describe the kind of person the hermit must be and the witness she must live I am also describing who she becomes by the grace of God in the silence of solitude. That means I am describing the person who is formed in the conditions laid down in Canon 603.
Dioceses that are discerning Canon 603 vocations have a right to expect that over the period of five years or so a person will come not only to be comfortable in silence and solitude but that they will grow as persons of prayer in the same context. This means the person will thrive as a loving human being, a human being in whom the Incarnation is clearly imaged. Formation is an ongoing reality in the life of any hermit and/or religious; so is conversion of heart and redemption. We grow more and more deeply united with God in Christ throughout our lives. Still, several years of eremitical solitude will produce unmistakable signs of an experience which is healing and sanctifying or one will need to discern this is not the vocation to which they are called.
You are correct that dioceses cannot engineer such experiences of redemption. All they can really do is supervise how a person is living the terms of Canon 603 and discern whether or not the person is truly thriving in this context, whether or not they are growing in holiness and wholeness and becoming the kind of person I have already mentioned. There are ways of assisting the person in both discernment and formation --- not least by requiring the candidate to write and revise Rules of Life which, over time, reflect where they are in terms of living the canon and their own personal growth. Occasional meetings with vocation personnel, regular spiritual direction, therapy to assist with unexpected or traumatic life circumstances, etc. are all helpful or even indispensable in the process of formation and discernment. A diocese can thus also ensure that sufficient time is given to discernment and formation without drawing it out inordinately. Vocation personnel can decide more easily than the candidate might be able to do, either when more time is needed or, for that matter, when the candidate is mistaken in thinking she has an ecclesial (or canonical) eremitical vocation.
What Will Formation Entail?
That said, the responsibility for formation falls to the hermit in canon 603 vocations. These are vocations to solitary eremitical life and that means there is no community, no novitiate, no formation director, etc. (Hermits formed in lauras need to be clear that c 603 requires they live as solitary hermits should the laura fail or be suppressed; thus, formation for c 603 is generally entirely dependent on the hermit's own initiative in cooperation with the grace of God alone.) The spiritual director can be extremely helpful here but she does not assume the role of formation director or some sort of superior; the hermit herself must take the initiative. She must be sure she reads about eremitic life, especially contemporary eremitical life, but also the desert Fathers and Mothers, Urban anchorites in the Middle Ages and later, and communities of hermits like the Camaldolese and Carthusians.
This will allow her to begin to see what she is living that is consistent with the tradition and what she is not. (If something seems inconsistent with the tradition she will work to discern its place in her life and the life of the Church; she will discern whether such modifications can and should be made for herself personally, but she will also do so as part of determining whether or not this represents a legitimate adaptation of a tradition which is Divinely inspired and a gift to the Church. What is discerned to be necessary for her may not be a legitimate adaptation of eremitical life.) Knowledge of the eremitical tradition and the history and nature of canon 603 is indispensable because this is the vocation she must negotiate as a solitary hermit living her call in the name of the Church.
Thus, she will reflect on Canon 603 and the terms of that. She will read and otherwise learn about the vows she proposes to make one day, especially from authors living those vows today and specializing in contemporary religious life. And of course she will pray, not just the Liturgy of the Hours (which will require some instruction from others), but quiet or contemplative prayer, lectio divina, journaling (which can be prayer and will support prayer and spiritual direction). She will learn to maintain Formative relationships in a life committed to the silence of solitude, and she will learn to love and serve others similarly. She will assure she lives a healthy and balanced life which includes appropriate recreation and exercise. Learning all of this and coming to the conclusion that she truly thrives in such a life is necessary as part of the candidate's formation. So is writing a livable Rule (a Rule which can be binding morally and canonically) --- something that cannot begin to happen until the hermit has learned how all of these pieces actually work in her own eremitical life.
The Rule:
Writing a Livable Rule that one proposes to be both morally and legally (canonically) bound to observe is a demanding and complex project. It requires several steps because it has to combine experience in eremitical life (including several years of learning and trying various prayer forms, etc), experience of living the values of the vows, and experience in working with one's director to truly reflect the eremitical tradition and to grow in one's life with God --- with the canonical or normative requirements of c 603 and one's diocese. Thus one will have (some form of) 1) an initial Rule that allows for considered experimentation in cooperation with spiritual direction, 2) a Rule that is less experimental but still allows for necessary changes as one builds in all the elements of eremitical life and comes to see what one needs personally (e.g., more sleep, more quiet prayer, less study, time outside the hermitage for walks, attendance at parish Mass, etc), 3) a Rule which includes the vows/vow formula and can bind one in a temporary commitment, and finally, 4) a Rule which fulfills the requirement of c 603, has been lived for a significant period of time (1 year or more) and which will bind one after perpetual profession.
As I experienced the task of writing (and rewriting) a Rule it is an essential part of the hermit's formation. In some ways, I see it as the most formative experience a canon 603 hermit can have precisely because in order to write one, one must reflect on every part of one's life and see how God is working in them. One then has to make decisions about what will allow for God to work as effectively as possible and in a way that corresponds to the canon's definition of eremitical life. Finally one must articulate all of this in a way that inspires one to live accordingly. It is for this reason I see the need for a hermit to write several Rules over time each of which corresponds to her level of knowledge, experience and need at any given point. Approaching the writing of a Rule in this way allows for discernment with the diocese as well as formation. In all of this though, I contend the person should be growing in wholeness and holiness and this growth should be recognizable. All of this means forming the heart of a hermit whose life witnesses to God's redemption.
I am not sure I have answered your questions. Most of these things I have written about before so please check the labels to see related articles. If I have missed answering something effectively please let me know and I will give it another shot.
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 12:27 PM
Labels: discerning eremitical life, Formation of a Diocesan or Lay Hermit, stages of discerrnment and formation
13 September 2023
So, Why is All of this Important to You?
These are great questions, thank you for posing them!! The distinctions I have drawn over the years are not my own, nor have I created any terms. While I really believe Canon 603 is beautifully written and exciting in ways I don't ordinarily find Canon law to be (!!), there are also ways in which someone reading the canon without a background in religious life, or some at-least-casual understanding of the norms and vocabulary related to religious life, will fail to understand categories and language that are significant and presupposed --- but which also often go unexplained. Mainly then, these terms and distinctions come from the Church's long-standing theology of religious (or consecrated) life. Let me give you a couple of examples.
We speak of entering a "state of life" via profession or a Sacrament (i.e., Baptism, Orders). Sometimes we refer to the "religious state", the "lay state", and the "clerical state," as well as of "being recognized" as members of a "recognized state of life". There are three terms that are sometimes misunderstood and even commonly misused, namely, "state of life," "recognized," and "profession". In speaking of consecrated life, the catechism refers to Christ proposing the evangelical counsels to all disciples, but then distinguishes the way those in the consecrated state are called to live these counsels. It says, "it is the profession of these counsels, within a permanent state of life recognized by the Church, that characterizes the life consecrated to God." Unfortunately, the catechism does not, so far as I can see, define "state of life", what constitutes "recognition"; nor, while italicizing the word profession, does it actually explain that it means not just making (public) vows, but also entering a new state of life. Thus, it really does not apply to someone dedicating themselves to eremitical life with private vows.
One thing we should keep in mind, even as we benefit from our use of the Catechism of the Catholic Church, is that it was not written for all Catholics. It was written for Bishops and thus presupposes knowledge about such things as the nature of "profession," what it takes for a religious congregation (or person in the consecrated state) to be established or "recognized," as being in that state. Because fundamental knowledge is presupposed by the catechism, this can cause the uninitiated person (which really is most laypeople) and many clergy as well to read various ambiguities through the wrong lens. That way lies almost certain misunderstandings and potentially serious stumbling blocks. So, in the section entitled The Consecrated Life, the word profession might be read as though it refers to any act of making vows. When that happens, someone making private vows might read this section of the catechism and believe that because they made private (non-canonical) vows as a lay person, they have been professed, "left" the lay state of life, and been initiated into the consecrated state of life via their avowal. In actual fact, however, the thrust of the section and the use of the term "profess" in the very first sentence, indicates immediately that this section of the CCC involves entry into a new state of life established in law and that it therefore requires a public commitment mediated by the Church herself.It can also be problematical when someone being admitted to profession under c 603 has no real understanding of the meaning and implications of correlative concepts like, "state of life" and "recognition" by the Church --- both of which imply the assumption of canonical (legal) rights and obligations beyond those granted with baptism. So, for instance, in the quotation above, recognition does not mean seen or allowed (as in "non-canonical hermits are recognized by my bishop" because they exist in his diocese); it means established in universal law. Since a number of c 603 hermits (and those seeking to be professed in this way) have never been through initial formation as religious nor studied canon law or the theology of consecrated life, and are unaware of the distinctions most religious know implicitly, clarifying the meanings of the terms, "state of life", "recognition," "profession", and also the nature of consecration and the way it differs from dedication, clarifications of these things can help with such misunderstandings or inadequate understandings.
My experience is that few dioceses seem to recognize how unlikely the average Catholic is to know these and other dimensions associated with profession under c 603. At least they don't seem to communicate these kinds of things to candidates or inquirers. There seems to be a tendency to assume that folks who seek admission to profession already know exactly what they are asking for and are able to take on. At the same time, some chancery personnel may not realize how completely they themselves have internalized some of those distinctions they know so well, and so, they simply do not think of needing to clarify their meaning. Others may not understand how important knowing about such dimensions can be in living eremitical life under this canon.When one understands that one is taking on responsibility for an ecclesial vocation with rights and obligations the entire church has a right to expect one to live well, it enhances one's sense of vocation. It also reminds us that one is definitely not merely doing "one's own thing" here and that the Church (the People of God) is called to support one in this vocation with its prayer, friendship, etc. In taking this vocation on, one is taking on an important, if rare, form of ecclesial life that has been lived and has contributed to the life of the Church throughout its long history. In a world and time where individualism is epidemic, it is critical that profession under c 603 be known by everyone as admission to an ecclesial vocation that belongs intrinsically to and benefits the Body of Christ. After all, c 603 life is focused on the God who wills to be God-With-Us! In this rare and incredibly vivid relationship with Love-in-Act, the hermit stands at and witnesses to the very heart of Christian life and hope --- Love completes each of us if only we open ourselves to this.
What is important to me? In all of this, it is important to me that everyone understands that dedicating oneself to eremitical life as a non-canonical hermit, whether or not one does so with the use of private vows, is to make a significant and valuable commitment. At the same time, it is important to me that people understand that those of us who seek and are admitted to profession under c 603 do not do so because we love canon law (I know of no canonical hermit who loves canon law!), or are somehow ignorant of God's law of love (much less being ignorant of or unconcerned by the reality of Divine love!!), nor because we are into prestige, power, or social status. We do so because we have felt called by God to contribute to the life of the Church and the living tradition of eremitical life in this particular and publicly responsible way. It is important to me that folks understand the integral relationship between this vocation and the Church so that it is not mistakenly perceived as selfish or individualistic. Instead, solitary canonical hermits live this life as a rare and vibrant expression of God's redemption, and we are grateful to the Church for finally recognizing and providing for this vocation with C. 603.
Though much fewer and farther between than when I first began blogging, I continue to get comments and questions from folks who read Joyful's public blog(s) and are concerned, confused, or simply gobsmacked by what they read there. Personally, I sincerely wish they were no longer available. Thus, it is also important to me to respond to those questions and comments (even those I cannot publish here) to clarify what I can. Most of the time these are common misunderstandings and general mischaracterizations that were once amplified in import by Joyful's blog and her inadequately supported claim to be a "consecrated Catholic Hermit". Today, my impression is that Joyful's posts on the Catholic Church generally, as well as on law of any kind, have made a lot of this moot and more obviously incredible. Still, past posts continue to raise questions and comments.Meanwhile, whether I receive questions or not, I do reflect on all of this as part of realizing the nature, promise, and challenge of solitary eremitical life in and for the church. Canon 603 is still relatively new and reflecting on various difficulties in implementing it is important (helpful) work. The irony is I am doing that work in my own little way as I live and move ever more deeply into the life framed by the canon itself, and not as an advocate of increased Canon law. I continue to be surprised at how well the Church fathers wrote when they composed this canon; because of this, my own work directly counters the typical approach of canonists regarding resolving the perceived "deficiencies" of C 603.
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 4:07 PM
Labels: consecrated state vs lay and clerical states of life, dedication versus profession, recognition of a state of life
12 September 2023
A Contemplative Moment: The Necessity of Relationships
Human freedom is founded on two indispensable pillars: the ability to possess oneself and the ability to overcome oneself. This is why every human being is, by his very nature, a person of dialogue and relationships. Both dialogue and relationships express the great potential for love of the human heart, a heart that is free.
The seclusion and solitude that constitute the eremitic life do not aim at negating the fundamental dynamism of human existence, with its entering into dialogue and relationships. On the contrary, eremitic isolation and solitude form the basis of that dynamism. As was said, one of the most important motives for undertaking the life of the desert is the burning desire to find one's own identity. In the course of time, however, we discover that we are unable to realize that task unaided. The only way of learning anything important about oneself is to look at another person's face** with love and attention.
As mentioned before, the hermit's solitude can never be a sign of withdrawal and isolation from the world and its affairs. The hermit, since he wants to serve other people, must arrive at a profound understanding of his own nature and his relation to God and the world. That is why his solitude is not at all a barrier, but it is rather the element that encourages openness toward others. The hermit, changed by the gift of meeting God, knows how to address the lonely hearts of those who come to seek his help and support. His solitude is not therefore a lifeless emptiness, but it is related to the most vital aspects of the human spirit. It is related to those spheres of human personality that can exist only if they are open to meeting God and the world in love.
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**The reference to seeking another's face is from an earlier section of the book where Wencel speaks of a quote by J. Tischner: [[To meet someone means to experience the person's face. Experiencing the other's face means experiencing his truth. What is necessary to make the meeting happen is mutuality; if we want to see the other's face we have to uncover our own face, and the other must have the intention to accept what has been revealed. . .The meeting introduces us to the depths of all the mysteries of existence, where questions about the sense and nonsense of everything are born.]] For Wencel, the paradox of eremitical solitude is the fact that it serves the hermit's quest and desire for love, and that implies "meeting and dialogue with God and with the human other."
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 12:29 AM
Labels: A Contemplative Moment, Cornelius Wencel Er Cam, The Necessity of relationships
10 September 2023
What Happens to a Canon 603 Hermit if a New Bishop is Installed?
Thanks for writing. I am glad you decided to check this out. Your chancery contact was correct in his/her impression. The quote is mistaken.
If a diocesan Ordinary is replaced by another, and that new bishop doesn't want to profess hermits under c 603, he doesn't generally have to do so --- except in one case. Even then it would be a matter of acting in good faith and charity to complete something begun under his predecessor, not a matter of having no choice. Suppose a hermit has been temporary professed under c 603 in the hands of his predecessor and has continued to live her vocation in a faithful way. In that case, she should be able to count on being admitted to perpetual profession in a timely manner by the new bishop so long as she and those responsible for her vocation continue to discern that diocesan eremitical life is her vocation. If that hermit is already perpetually professed, however, the new bishop needs to accept that it is his role to supervise this vocation in some substantive way. This specific vocation comes to him with his assumption of responsibility for the diocese, and he needs to accept that, no matter how personally challenging he finds this. The hermit who is perpetually professed and consecrated does not have to uproot, search for a willing bishop, find another SD, locate housing, parish, etc., and incur the expense of such a move simply because one bishop does not want to use a Canon that is already in effect in universal law.
I have not run into a case where someone who is either preparing for profession or who has already made a temporary profession is simply left high and dry when a new bishop is installed. I am aware of one situation where the Archbishop will be retiring in another year or so; even so, in this specific case there has been an auxiliary bishop overseeing the individual's progress; the general sense is that the candidate can confidently continue on with the process of discernment and formation she has been working through for more than a year and a half now and do so under the auxiliary. Hermits seeking profession under canon 603 do not move through the process all at the same speed, and they are not ready for profession at the same time. One of the things we are trying to get dioceses to recognize is that writing a liveable Rule -- as required by the canon --- takes significant experience and time. The process of discernment and formation is more individualized for this vocation than any other I know. The process of writing a Rule helps with both of these, both for the candidate and for the discernment team. Chanceries do tend to know some of this and act in good faith regarding admission to profession.
Further Considerations and Possibilities:
Your own situation raises the difficulties of moving to another diocese very clearly. The demands they would place on you to continue following this vocation would be inordinate and unacceptable, especially given both CC 603 and 605 that are universally binding within the Church. You have not said whether you are temporary professed or not, but I do agree that even if you are in temporary vows now, moving to another diocese would essentially mean starting over again. I think that would be true even if your current bishop and those others who have worked with you over the years wrote glowing recommendations. I think it is really important that you find a way to ease your concerns in this matter as much as possible. If the new bishop is not here already, get an appointment with the current Ordinary as well as with the chancery personnel who have been working with you during the past years, and apprise them of your concerns.If they can assure you your own discernment/formation process will continue without the prospect of it being derailed because of a new bishop, then excellent! If this assurance cannot be given, another option might be for the diocese to anticipate perpetual profession and celebrate this before your current bishop leaves office. If this is not possible, however, try to get a sense of what you still need to do so that you are ready for that step as soon as possible. If you are working on your Rule, then try to get an assessment of where that is still weak or incomplete. There are posts on writing a Rule on this blog, including a new post on "the basics". Much of writing a Rule has to do with sufficient experience and reflection. What you include in your Rule will be used by your diocese to help determine your own readiness for perpetual or definitive commitment. Do get some specific answers from vocation personnel in regard to their own work with you. At least this will help ensure both they and you are clear about your progress and any concerns regarding your vocation.
And, of course, if you are already definitively professed and consecrated, you have nothing to worry about in any case. Still, if the incoming bishop does not want C 603 hermits, one thing you may want to consider is that he may also not plan on supervising your vocation as C 603 calls for. Neither may he be able to do so. In that case, if you have not already done so, I recommend you ask your current bishop to approve a delegate with whom you will meet in place of or in addition to the local ordinary. Hermits ordinarily choose their delegate, but some bishops will assign them. In either case, a delegate serves as a quasi-superior and can ease the burden on the bishop by meeting with the hermit more frequently than bishops can ordinarily do. I work very closely with my delegate(s) and that has seen me through various bishops and degrees of availability. Moreover, since my co-delegate(s) are both women Religious with backgrounds in formation and leadership, our level of sharing is greater than it might be with a bishop I see but once or twice a year. Just something to consider.Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 7:59 PM
Labels: Bishops and diocesan hermits, bishops closed to c 603 vocations, Rule and formation, Rule and Lived Experience, Rule as tool for discernment
09 September 2023
Bishops, the Suppression of Non-Canonical Eremitical Vocations and Related Questions
What if someone says they don't want to be a C 603 hermit but want their vocation as a Catholic hermit recognized by the diocese, can the bishop allow them to be a Catholic Hermit without using c 603? I know some hermits who hate what is happening to the pure simple eremitical vocation under Canon 603 and want no part of profession via c 603. Would a Bishop force someone like this to become a canon 603 hermit despite their not desiring this? Some have communicated to their Bishops that they don't want this done and that they hope the bishop would continue to regard them as Catholic Hermits. Are their hopes in vain here? Does it matter what bishop is involved?
I just think all these categories and competition are confusing. It makes Canon Law look kind of silly, don't you think?]]
Thanks for your questions. I have understood them and will try to answer all of them. Many have been addressed here many times over the years so you might check the list of labels to the right. The idea of there being many categories and that there is competition between vocations making Canon Law look silly is mistaken. I know some write about increasing numbers of canons and complexity as though this is actually occurring, but it is not. When looking at the character of vows or commitments being made by hermits, there are only two categories governing these. The first is non-canonical or private and the second is canonical or public.
Those making public (canonical) commitments are being admitted to a vocation authorized by and lived in the name of the Church. These persons petition to be admitted to the rights and obligations associated with public or ecclesial vocations, and once their petition is received, they begin a long process of mutual discernment, formation, and other "vetting" that can include psychological testing, letters of recommendation, time lived in monasteries under the mentorship of monks or nuns who can assist in this way, and the assessment and approval of a Rule written by the candidate themselves. All of this is meant to take seriously the person's capacities and preparation to live an ecclesial vocation in a public or normative way. This is what is involved in living such a vocation "in the name of the Church". In other words, the Church wants to make as sure as possible this person has a Divine vocation others can look to as "normative" within the Church because this vocation belongs first, to the church and only thereafter to the individual to whom this vocation is mediated. If one does not want any part of this, one simply doesn't petition to be admitted to profession and the second consecration besides that of baptism.Thus, someone feeling they are called to be a Catholic hermit (whether solitary or part of an eremitical institute of consecrated life) with all of the rights and obligations appertaining, will submit to the process required. Those who wish to live as hermits without jumping through all of these hoops or being granted standing in universal law in a public vocation, can do so simply by virtue of their baptism which represents one's first and fundamental consecration. What this person cannot do, however, is represent themselves as a Catholic Hermit living a normative eremitical vocation in the name of the Church. Nor can they call themselves consecrated hermits since that requires the second consecration associated with public vocations and initiation into what the Church identifies as the consecrated state of life.
The bishop's role in all of this pertains mainly to the public vocations lived in the name of the Church and under the bishop's direct and indirect supervision. Non-canonical vocations are essentially private vocations without additional rights and obligations beyond those granted by baptism; thus, anyone baptized is free to try such a vocation without reference to the bishop, one's pastor, etc. Baptism alone gives them the freedom to live such a vocation. The bishop cannot prevent one from living such a vocation, though he is always free to meet with, encourage, support, and advise such hermits if he has the time and inclination --- or not. Should someone come to him asking to be recognized as a Catholic Hermit apart from canon law, he has no authority to do that. He too is bound by canon law in this matter including C 605 re: new forms of consecrated life. If he wishes to ask someone to consider becoming a canonical hermit, he can certainly do that, but he can NEVER force a person to accept admission to the canonical rights and obligations of a public vocation. Were that to happen, the profession and consecration would be invalid in any case.Bishops will tell folks to continue living non-canonical commitments for several reasons, and usually, this happens through intermediaries (Vicars, vocation directors, etc). The most common one is that he does not perceive a potential vocation to the canonical or consecrated state or actually sees the person as unsuitable to representing such a vocation. At the same time, he may sincerely recognize that the majority of hermits have always been non-canonical and wish to retain this vocation in his diocese. A bishop need not suppress non-canonical vocations simply because canonical ones are available nor have I ever heard anyone doing such a thing. The latter (canonical vocations) are relatively rare, while the former have existed from the days of the Desert Abbas and Ammas. (There was a time when the solitary eremitical vocation in the Western Church had largely ceased to exist. That has never been the case in the Eastern Church.) Moreover, since non-canonical eremitical calls do not require the bishop's supervision any more than other private (non-canonical) vocations require this, he may actually encourage such vocations and even keep casual tabs on how they develop in the diocese. I think this latter arrangement (keeping tabs, etc.), however, is exceedingly rare and would exist only for a bishop with special concerns for all forms of eremitism.Because I understand the division between public (canonical) and private (non-canonical) as the fundamental and complementary division existing in the church today, I see no competition between the two. They are different vocations with different rights and obligations from one another. Both are valid and both can be edifying. Because I understand the canonical vocation as normative and the way the Church has chosen to honor the long history of non-canonical hermits in the Church, I see it as a vocation meant to serve all eremitical life. Because the Church has written so that the entire faith community and certainly everyone trying to live as a hermit can benefit from the canonical requirements of C 603, I don't think it is silly either. In this instance, I really do find that law serves love and creates a realm of freedom, ongoing challenge, and healthy expectations for/of consecrated hermits in the Catholic Church.
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 5:58 AM
07 September 2023
On Writing a Rule of Life: Additional Suggestions --- the Basics
With some elements of the canon, defining what they are is more challenging. For instance, did you notice that that canon does not read silence and solitude, but rather, "the silence of solitude"? While this term includes external silence and physical solitude, it is also more than these. Thus, you will need to define the individual terms that make up the element required by the canon, and you will also need to define the larger element that is more than the sum of its parts. If you don't understand this personally yet, define what you can and say how you live what you can define, but make a note for yourself about what you have not yet defined! It is something you will need to understand and write about before admission to perpetual profession.
Something similar is true for "stricter separation from the world". What does the term, "the world" mean in this phrase? This is not what some folks think it means and it is not even what some religious and monastics have said from time to time!! What does it not mean, or at least, not primarily mean? How about the word stricter? Stricter than what? What limits can or even must legitimately be put on the term "Stricter" -- assuming it does not mean absolute!? "Separation" needs to be looked at as well. What is healthy separation (generally, for most hermits, and also for yourself), and what is not? For some, this term calls for complete reclusion and a support structure to assist in this, while for others, complete reclusion would result in the destruction of one's psychological health and vocation. I think you see what I mean when I speak of answering the questions, "What is it?" and "How do I live it?" Again, no idealizing. Keep your writing in the present!
The third question I suggest you answer with regard to each central element of the Canon is, "Why is this important?" Various ways of looking at this question include: why is it important for religious life generally? How about eremitical life more specifically? Why is this element important for the Church or her witness to Jesus Christ and the Gospel? Does it bring a special clarity or vividness when lived by a hermit? Are there any groups of people for whom a hermit's living this will be especially important and in what way? And finally, why is this important for your own life with God? In what ways has this element helped you to see and grow to be the person God has called you to be? What allows you to speak with confidence that this is what God has called you to? Whatever further questions help you to say why this element is important and thus needs to be included in both the Canon and your own Rule can be added as needed. In any case, allow these questions to rumble around inside yourself until you have clear answers to them. As you continue discerning and being formed in this vocation, do as Rainer Marie Rilke suggested to the young poet and "live the questions"!
Posted by Sr. Laurel M. O'Neal, Er. Dio. at 11:03 PM
Labels: Canon 603, Rule and Lived Experience, Rule as tool for discernment, Rule of Life -- writing a rule of life, writing a liveable Rule, writing a Rule -- the basics, writing a rule of life, writing to learn